Ep 101: Should You Draft Your Own Letter of Recommendation?
Welcome to today's episode where we delve into the intricate world of letters of recommendation. Are you facing the daunting task of writing your own letter? Don't fret, because in this episode, we're here to help.
Sometimes, even when you've done everything right—completed the necessary work, built a strong relationship with your recommender, and asked for their assistance well in advance—their busy schedule may hinder them from writing the letter themselves. In such cases, they might suggest that you write it instead, and they'll simply review, sign, and submit it. But is this the right approach? Is it odd to write your own letter of recommendation? Well, the answer, not surprisingly, is that it depends.
Episode Highlights
It is generally advisable to have recommenders write the letters, as they have a different perspective and can provide valuable insights.
Recommenders may know how to write effective recommendation letters that resonate with other faculty members.
Recommenders can be more candid when writing letters if they know you won't see the final product.
It is important that we establish trust and a strong relationship with recommenders.
In cases where the recommender is busy or unable to write the letter, a suggestion could be to become actively involved in the process, such as providing information and support.
IF you end up writing your own letter, and there is a clear agreement with the recommender, it doesn't typically raise red flags for law schools.
We encourage you to do your own research and consult the specific requirements of the schools you are applying to when it comes to letters of recommendations
Tweetable Quotes
“Your recommender is not you. They see you in a different way than you see yourself. They may see valuable skills, traits, characteristics, personality, whatever it is. They may see those things, and you do not. Having them write the letter gives them the chance to express those things that you never would because you just don’t see it.”